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What are the most common divorce causes?

On Behalf of | Dec 29, 2023 | Divorce

Divorce is a painful and stressful process that affects many couples in the United States. According to the latest statistics, the divorce rate in North Carolina is 3.1 per 1,000 residents, slightly lower than the national average of 3.2. However, this does not mean that divorce is uncommon or easy to prevent. In fact, there are many factors that can lead to divorce.

Lack of family support

One of the most surprising and common reasons for divorce is a lack of family support. This means that the spouses do not receive enough emotional, financial or practical support from their relatives, friends or community. This can create a sense of isolation and that can erode the marital bond.

To avoid this problem, maintain a healthy relationship with your family and friends. Respect your spouse’s family and friends, and try to get along with them. If you have children, you should also involve them in your family activities and traditions, and encourage them to have a positive relationship with both parents.

If you already lack family support, consider counseling or mediation to improve your relationship with your relatives. Consider support groups or community organizations that can provide you with emotional and social support.

Lack of compatibility

Another common reason for divorce is a lack of compatibility. This means that the spouses have different personalities, values, goals, interests or lifestyles that make them incompatible. This can cause frequent conflicts, boredom, dissatisfaction or resentment.

To avoid this problem, communicate openly and honestly with your spouse about your expectations, needs and preferences. Try to compromise, when necessary. Respect your spouse’s individuality and autonomy, and support their personal growth and development.

If already lack compatibility with your spouse, consider couples therapy or coaching to help you resolve your differences and find ways to reconnect. Explore new hobbies or activities that you can enjoy together or separately and spice up your romantic life.

Lack of intimacy

Intimacy, or the lack thereof, is another common cause for marital strife. This means that the spouses have lost their emotional or physical connection. To avoid this problem, maintain a close and intimate relationship. Communicate openly and honestly with your spouse. Listen actively and empathetically to your spouse, and express your love and appreciation for your spouse regularly.

If already experience a lack of intimacy, consider how you can rekindle the spark. Spend more quality time together doing things that you both enjoy or find meaningful. Find ways to improve your sexual relationship, and seek professional help, if needed.